When I want to get to know someone I could choose to invest my time in asking them a bunch of questions about themselves, but in order to actually get a good sense of them, the answers would need to come from a self-aware, honest place. This is not always accessible for people, and it also takes quite some time. Therefore, I generally opt for putting someone into bondage as soon as realistically possible. In bondage, a person lays themselves bare. In bondage, a person cannot hide. They can TRY to hide. They can TRY to hold it together, but with enough stressors, their true nature will soon surface, and ultimately, that is what I am most interested in seeing. I am not overly interested in the facade of a person (though that can be interesting as well), but more so, I want to see how a person tries to keep their composure when stressed. Do they externalize? Do they internalize? Are they composed? Are they expressive? I have found that nothing as much as pain or breath control helps more to create situations that allow for the person’s essence to surface. This is why, soon after meeting the lovely Portia Everly, I wanted to do this breath play scene with her. I was curious to see what was in there. What I discovered was a very strong, composed, and capable woman who looks super hot dressed in objectifying latex, drooling down her *******, nipples electrified, and looking for small sips of air when possible. Welcome Portia!
