I have found that suspending a person in rope is a great way to get to know them. When a person is under figurative (or in this case, quite physical!) pressure, their true character is revealed. Also, I have found suspension to be clarifying in terms of what vibe of kink a person may tend towards. As rope suspension can be quite stressful on the body and mind, some people naturally lean in to that challenge, wanting to push themselves and feel as if they have gone through something, an ordeal, however, there are those who pull away from this stress and do not want to take part in it. There is no one true way to be kinky, but there are many paths to take when playing with someone, and determining if someone enjoys the “ordeal” or not is an important distinction. All of this is to say that through the process of suspending Stefani, I saw that she enjoys the ordeal. She wants to be overcome with sensation, and she wants to challenge herself in new directions. Not only that, but I also observed how serene she became the more that her body was stressed. You can see in her face that she isn’t merely holding strong, but rather she is leaning into the vulnerable situation that she is in. She is able to let go. I think this is so beautiful! Enjoy!
Rope Bondage
Sensual Domination
